I learned about the Rock 'n' Roll Marathon in Las Vegas while I was on my monthly call with leadership guru, John Maxwell. Maxwell was in Vegas for business with his CEO Mark Cole and had decided last minute to participate in the 13.1 mile endeavor. Maxwell used that experience to discuss the lessons he had learned from it, and Heidi and I used our experience in Vegas to talk about what we observed. Read More
My father recently discovered this letter while cleaning out my great-grandmother's house after she passed away. She was almost 104 years old, and had been married to Mage's brother, Tucker. This handwritten letter was from Mage Axum to his brother. He wrote it while overseas serving in the Army during WW2. Read More
The Terminator and Terminator 2: Judgment Day were awesome sci-fi flicks, but the franchise's sequels--not so much. However, Terminator: Dark Fate entertained me from the beginning to the end. Read More
I enjoyed an invigorating spiritual retreat at North Coast Church in Oceanside, titled "Sticky Teams 2019: Thriving in Babylon: Christianity in Crisis." Pastoral and leadership experts like Chris Brown, Carey Nieuwhof, Dr. Larry Osborne, and Albert Tate presented awesome seminars. Here are just a few of my takeaways: Read More
What a dark, dark film—almost to the point of being unenjoyable. Flickering low-light conditions and exploring somber topics like mental illness, suicidal thoughts, child abuse, and brutal bullying. It was a far cry from my childhood memories of Jack Nicholson playing the charismatic Joker. Amazing performance by Joaquin Phoenix, though.
My great-grandmother, Isabel Axum, whom we affectionately called "Memaw," would have celebrated her 104th birthday this November had the Lord not called her back home last Thursday, June 20, 2019. Her extraordinary life touched so many others, and everyone who came across her path has their own wonderful and unique story about her kindness and sense of humor, but here's mine: Read More
I just finished up a three-day leadership conference at Southwest Church in Southern California called THRIVE. It's a Christian conference designed to educate and energize people of faith. This was my first year to attend, and I'm glad I did. It was like drinking from a firehose, and it'll take me the rest of the year to digest everything. But here are some of my notes: Read More
I love watching movies and discussing them. So, when my friend challenged me to jot down my list of favorites based on genre, I accepted the challenge. I'm sure I forgot to mention a few, but this will suffice for now: Read More
"Signs" is NOT a movie about special effects. So, you won't experience the cool flying scenes and dramatic explosions you saw in the popular UFO movie, "Independence Day," starring Will Smith. Rather, "Signs" is another engrossing psychological thriller by the talented director, M. Night Shyamalans. Scenes will have you on the edge of your seat, and constantly guessing what comes next. The dialogue and acting are simple, but they hit their mark! Are there aliens? Of course, there are, according to this movie. But that's not the focus. The real question is: "Is there such a thing as a coincidence?"
I became a follower of Dave Ramsey's financial advice after I read his book, Total Money Makeover, during the Christmas season of 2011. His recommendation to start an emergency savings account saved our family dog. You can read about that by clicking here. But for this blog, I'm going to share with you the tips I learned from taking Dave's nine-week Financial Peace University (FPU). If you wanna skip the reason I highly recommend the course, and go straight to enrolling, then click here to find FPU near you. Read More
I first learned about Dave Ramsey, the financial guru who cuts up credit cards, when I was working in Italy. My colleague said Financial Peace University, which they attended through their local church, helped him and his wife finally gain freedom from their debt. I was debt free at the time, but I was intrigued by this Christian man from Tennessee who could teach finances in a way that I had never heard it taught before. This no-nonsense, wise man used Biblical principles to help people win with money. So, that Christmas of 2011, I was working in Mons, Belgium on behalf of NCIS. It seemed like the small town rolled the sidewalks up at about 6:00 PM every night because of the holiday season. There was nothing for me to do after work, so I spent my nights back in my hotel room reading and highlighting Ramsey's best-selling book, "The Total Money Makeover." The lessons I learned started a chain reaction that would save my dog's life years later... Read More
I'm a fan of Melissa McCarthy's work. She's a talented actress and possesses great comedic timing. Her performance was fantastic in this film--perhaps her best. However, this drama is based on the true story of Lee Israel, an American author who started forging letters from prominent people and selling them to make ends meet while living in NYC in the 1990s. For someone (Israel) who had such respect for literature, it was appaling that she would do what she did, and do it repeatedly! She showed no remorse for her crimes, and seemed to be an ungrateful, mean spirited, and joyless human being. I found no redeeming qualities in her, except she cared for her cat. But even then, she described her 12 year old cat as being the only soul that loved her unconditionally. Lee Israel never spent a day in prison for her crimes, and ultimately wrote a memoir about this scandal. Writing a book about this just seemed to further her own ego and self-absorption. Click here for trailer.
I've often heard courage and confidence used interchangeable, but there is a YUGE difference. Courage is action; confidence is emotion. In other words, courage is what you do to make yourself more confident. Read More
"Unbroken: Path to Redemption" is a really good movie based on the true-life story of Louis Zamperini. The film highlighted his struggle to find peace once he returned to the USA after having suffered in a Japanese POW camp for years during World War II. His wife tried to get Louis to find redemption through religion, but because of what he had been through, his reply was: "God is my enemy!" It reminded me of something I heard the motivational speaker Tony Robbins ask once: (1) Is God punishing you? (2) Is God rewarding you? (3) Or is God challenging you?
Have you ever felt that God was punishing you?
Every year I pick a word to serve as my annum's guiding theme. 2018 was "gratitude," and 2019 is "service." Hence, this blog about service. My cousin had once asked me: "Is the janitor or the plumber more important or less important than the manager or CEO?" Read More
I was listening to Dave Ramsey's podcast during my commute to work. The famous financial guru described the results from studying 10,000 millionaires. The research revealed that people who have wealth and keep wealth, think about the future. "I've noticed that rich people have wills, and poor people have fights when they die—over nothing because they don't have nothing!" sayeth Dave Ramsey. Read More
"I believe that one of the most valuable gifts you can give yourself is time—taking time to be more fully present." Oprah
What are the most valuable things in life? Health? Relationships? Money? Yup, they're all important. They enrichen your life and give you options. But consider this for a moment: I've gotten ill, but I regained my health. Read More
Time: Present Time
Background: Mr. Gerald McMillan is my best friend's dad. He was a pharmacist at a local hospital, and the McMillan family lived down the street from me in Lafayette, Louisiana. The 1980s suburban was a real vehicle that the McMillan family owned, and Jacob and I used to drive it back and forth to martial arts classes. It was like a tank, but instead of green, it was blue. Instead of tracks, it had rubber tires. Read More
This crime thriller was even better the second time I watched it! It's directed by the Coen Brothers, and based on the novel by Cormac McCarthy.
In summary: Llewelyn Moss (Josh Brolin) is out hunting deer when he comes upon the grisly aftermath of a drug deal gone bad. His greed takes over, and he steals a briefcase of cash. Well, of course, the owner of that money is not going to stop looking for it. Read More
Was going through a list of movies on my Amazon watchlist, when I came across Alamar, a 2010 semi-documentary about a 4 year-old Italian boy who was the beautiful product of an Italian woman's tryst with a Yucatan tour guide. The young boy, Natan, spends a summer on the remote Mexican island with his father, and a kind-hearted grandfather figure who likes to joke and drink coffee with lots of sugar. Read More
My childhood shows were Thundercats, GI Joe, and He-Man. So, my only recollection of Mister Rogers' Neighborhood was from what other people would say, and also from satire clips. But the buzz about this new documentary, Won't You be my Neighbor, peaked my interest and I sat down to watch it. Boy, I'm glad I did. This film showcases an ordained ministry who was heading one direction when Fate re-calibrated his compass--and steered him toward television, and ultimately inside the homes of millions of Americans. Read More
Operation Finale was about the Israeli clandestine operation to capture Nazi war criminal Adolf Eichmann in Argentina. The purpose of the operation was for Eichmann to stand trial in Israel for war crimes during World War II. I'm disheartened that more people went to watch "Crazy Rich Asians " over the Labor Day weekend instead of seeing a film about the endless pursuit to bring justice to evildoers, but I digress... Read More
Not too long ago I saw the film, "All the Money in the World." The Rome scenes and interactions with the Carabinieri brought back fond memories of when I lived and worked in Italy. My favorite line from the film was: "Priceless? I deplore that word. Everything has a price. The great struggle in life is finding out that price." When asked how much money it would take for Mr. Getty to feel secure, he replied, "More."
My wife and I both attended public schools in Louisiana. Although we grew up in different parts of the State, we observed that none of our teachers taught us about money. Read More
Saw the movie "Alpha," today. Takes place 20,000 years ago in Europe. Entertaining and intense flick about a teenage boy who must survive alone in the wilderness after he's left for dead during his first hunt with his tribe. My favorite quote was from this young man's mother: "He leads with his heart, not with his spear." A lot of themes play out in this film: coming of age, enemies becoming friends, earning your father's pride, being stronger than you think, man vs nature, etc. There was too much CGI for my liking, but I did enjoy how the movie showed the evolution of how the wolf would eventually become man's best friend. After the show, I went home and loved on my five-year old Chocolate Labrador.
The movie about James Brown's life, "Get on Up," was satisfying! The director (Tate Taylor) and main actor (Chadwick Boseman) captured the essence of the "Godfather of Soul" within the time constraints of a Hollywood movie. The film was entertaining, the story was fascinating, and the music was energizing! I couldn't help but wonder if James Brown would have become James Brown had it not been for his really sad childhood. His struggles reminded me of the metamorphosis that must take place for the caterpillar to become the butterfly. I think we shy away from struggles and let them handicap us, when in reality, they help us grow into the person we're destined to become.
The word, "opportunity," is an old nautical term that means "toward a port." Ship captains couldn't just sail their boats filled with crew, cargo, and passengers into the harbor. They had to be skilled mariners. They had to measure the wind, current, and tide. They had to be on the lookout for other ships, too. To safely port, they had to see their opening, and then take advantage of the situation.
Recognizing the history of this beautiful word helps us understand the secret to seizing opportunities. Read More
Here is a story from my newest coauthor, the lovely Ms. Heidi Axum:
You would think with all the talking pilots do, that they'd be better at communicating. I'm not a pilot, but I am a frequent flyer with my husband at the controls. In fact, our first date was 16 years ago when he flew me over Louisiana's bayous at sunset. I've been flying with him ever since. 99% of those hours in the air have been uneventful—just pleasurable sightseeing over our vast country. However, our flight on June 28, 2018 made the hair on my arms stand up! Read More
"Suffering doesn't choose the weak or the strong, the faithful or the faithless. It chooses the human," by Ann Voskamp.
I recently attended service at St. Simon's Community Church, and the pastor's message on grief was very insightful. It may be helpful to you:
The G20 summit in the Fall of 2011 was held in Cannes, France. President Obama and French President Sarkozy were scheduled to deliver a joint press-conference highlighting the NATO alliance and the recent success of the military operation in Libya.
I supported the Allied Joint Force Commander's mission, so I traveled to France with him. Our flight on the military jet was quick—only 50 minutes from the American naval base in Italy to Southern France. Once we arrived at the airport, I saw Air Force One towering on the tarmac. The sky was overcast with grey skies and light rain. We wasted no time jumping into our motorcade, and getting escorted by two French motorcycle cops weaving in and out of traffic with their sirens and flashing lights.
I spent the weekend in Washington D.C. visiting my good buddy, Cale Johnson. Cale is a decorated naval officer, talented mechanic and engineer, dedicated family man, and a very generous human being. He knew I was training in Southeast Georgia for 16 weeks, and he offered me a loaner car. So, I flew to D.C. to hang out with him and to pick up the keys to his extra car. Read More
I enjoyed Paulo Coelho's interview with Oprah on her Soul Sunday podcast, and I really enjoyed his novel, "The Alchemist." He wrote it in about two weeks! There were so many great quotations. Here was one I really enjoyed: "No matter what he does, every person on earth plays a central role in the history of the world. And normally he doesn't know it."
I really like this graphic by Hugh MacLeod, which shows the relationship between knowledge and experience. The old saying "with age comes wisdom" is not necessarily true. Sometimes age comes alone.
Just watched "Hearts in Atlantis," for the first time. It came out in 2001, but that was an intense time for me--being a full time college student and police officer. This film, based on a Stephen King novel, brought back a special childhood nostalgia, and so many sayings were priceless. As someone who travels back home to Louisiana once or twice a year, this line resonated with me: "Why do we always expect home to stay the same? Nothing else does."
Finished Lt. Joe Kenda's audiobook today ("I Will Find You"), which was narrated by the dry-humored, sarcastic homicide detective. King Solomon once asked: "Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes getting burned." If you want to go inside the mind of a true law enforcement professional and walk a beat in his bloody shoes, I highly recommend this book. Check out the television series as well. He discusses many of the same crimes, just in more detail in his memoir.
I just finished listening to the audiobook, "Gifted Hands: The Ben Carson Story." The surgeon's first-hand account was filled with emotional stories of struggle, loss, and triumph--both inside and outside the operating room. His mother grew up in various foster homes and married at 13 years young to escape her living situation. With only a third-grade education, she battled clinical depression as she reared Ben and his brother. One important change she made in Ben's childhood that altered the course of his life was limiting the amount of TV he could watch, and requiring him to read two books a week. His rise to become a world-renowned neurosurgeon and presidential candidate are reflective of the American spirit. If you haven't seen the Hollywood movie played by Cuba Gooding Jr., I recommend it. It is closely aligned to Dr. Ben's book.
I first learned about this insightful book while walking the streets of Hong Kong. With headphones in my ears, I was listening to a John Maxwell Maximim Impact Membership call. He referenced "The Laws of Lifetime Growth" by Dan Sullivan and Catherine Nomura, and so I ordered it and was excited to start reading it. Tony Robbins said: "Change is inevitable; progress is optional." And this great little book provided me the tools to refocus my efforts on growing to my potential. Here were my takeaway lessons from the authors: Read More
I watched the documentary, "Waiting for Superman," which highlighted the [broken] education system in the United States. I was fortunate growing up, even to the point of taking it for granted, that all my schools in Lafayette, Louisiana were great public schools. But this documentary shows how so many American children are yearning for an education, but not given access to one. It reminded me of the year and a half when I worked in Kenya. Read More
1. If you say no other prayer, say "thank you."
2. Indecision is a decision.
3. Never fight a man with paint on his pants. Read More
In keeping with our "Stephen King Saturday" tradition, Heidi & I watched "The Shining." I had never seen it before, nor read the book. Jack Nicholson can sure play a crazy man! The movie was scary, but the plot left me asking a ton of questions. I learned that a lot of sections from the book were omitted from the movie, which made the film a little choppy and confusing at times. However, the overall arching theme of the film is that there are supernatural forces at work. Have you ever stayed at a place where you felt this supernatural energy? I can think of two places where I felt energy from "the other side": The Myrtles Plantation in Louisiana, and the Winchester Mystery House in California.
How much different would our society be if we could “buy” our deceased friends back to Earth? Think about this for a minute. You have lost a very close friend, but God says to you: “You can have (insert name here) back on Earth for another 5 years, but you have to donate $50,000 to charity.” Would you do it? Read More
I received my PADI scuba certification while attending the University of Louisiana in Lafayette. My instructor, Mr. Terry Crownover, was an awesome divemaster who helped me advance from my open-water certification, to advanced, and then onto rescue diver. I had no idea at that time that my scuba training would take me across the globe to explore the distant oceanfloors, but I'm grateful it did.
While deployed in Rabaul, Papua New Guinea (PNG) to assist the USNS MERCY for its Pacific Partnership mission, I went scuba diving and was in awe to see this Japanese Zero warfighter plane that had been shot down during WW2 and crashed into the ocean. PNG was a wealth of WW2 history on land and in the sea.
It felt invigorating to once again be in the bustling metropolitan capital, with its ancient plazas, ornate fountains, and elaborate stone monuments at each intersection. Keeping in pace with an ever-advancing globalized world, Madrid boasted capitalist enterprises like Starbucks, McDonalds, Burger King, and TGI Fridays at every corner. Yet there was something starkly different about this culture from the rest of the civilized world. Read More
I sent the below email to some of my colleagues after an official email was sent out discussing the need to be sensitive to what we say because of historical connotations. The State department email talked about how saying "Hold down the fort" was insensitive because that term meant to hold the fort down while Americans attacked Indians--I mean Native Americans. Read More